tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post1783980990790395239..comments2024-01-12T03:59:55.781-05:00Comments on Razz is the new cool.: Random thoughts about Hair...Original Mgbekehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comBlogger104125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-5339692424082451842009-10-19T00:18:40.867-04:002009-10-19T00:18:40.867-04:00btw sorry 4 spoling the whole peace and love. just...btw sorry 4 spoling the whole peace and love. just had to round up somethings.lol. now we can have a peaceful conversation starting now :-)sylvianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-42605172888504376052009-10-19T00:09:34.986-04:002009-10-19T00:09:34.986-04:00well i don't have a problem with pple who deci...well i don't have a problem with pple who decides to go all natural. my problem is with pple like ada and sugabelly that wont let pple who decides not to go natural be instead they penelaize those who are not soley into the whole "natural hair". at ada this is my last comment for u. i am going to ignore u because i can see u are not mentally balanced. u probably really do have nappy hair that's why u took that Dith's statement personal. speaking of breeds i am not worried about u bringing in any. ur generation stopped at u.lets make that clear. now adding to what my friend said about the whole botox ish, what about tanning? white pple tan, doesn't mean they are running away 4rm their race. the tanning biz is mega money. they also wear extensions and get perms so it's no just a black thing, i don't know if it has to do with black pple it's us NIGERIANS that like fussing about irrelevant stuff.. NATURAL HAIR OR NOT KINI BIG DEAL???sylvianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-6338982453199688752009-10-18T18:45:08.773-04:002009-10-18T18:45:08.773-04:00... and then we all exhaled.
Peace be unto this b...... and then we all exhaled.<br /><br />Peace be unto this bloghouse.<br /><br />My sincere apologies to mgbeke, i render.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-66116745778169015852009-10-18T17:11:29.603-04:002009-10-18T17:11:29.603-04:00and I'll make it a hundred and one just cos i ...and I'll make it a hundred and one just cos i can.lol<br />ok I think now we can now have a civil conversation<br /><br /><br /> and my annoyance once again was when you said "GOD BLESSED BLACK FOLKS WITH ALOTTA THINGS BUT I'M SORRY, HAIR AIN'T ONE OF THEM". and using the market value of our hair to prove that God clearly didn not bless because if he did then the rest of the world will appreciate it.<br /> that has been my bone of contention and the premise of my argument with you. I do not know you before, so why would i want to pick on you for no reason.your intial statement was grossly flawed and I had to challenge it. <br /><br />I am glad you actually do believe that your hair is just as good as everyone elses hair... and people should not be ashamed or feel less than when they rock their hair naturally<br /><br />this is not an anti weave campaign biko. no one is saying do not wear weave. that was never my stance. infact it is great to give your hair a break once in a while from all the manipultaion. the problem just comes when people think there is something inherently wrong with the thing that grows out of your head.. we all come in different shapes and sizes with distinct features. but in whatever way you come. whether you come white with flat yansh or black with full lips. embrace every part of you and love yourself fully. Now that is my fucking cause. <br /><br />and of course at the end of the day it is just hair but other times it is not when it brings to light underlying issues about the way we see ourselves. i think i should be done for now.. maybe.lol.<br /><br />Anya I like your take on this argument from a functional point of view.Adahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099059557885510619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-10908574818020230482009-10-18T17:04:52.830-04:002009-10-18T17:04:52.830-04:00That Anon at 4:11pm doesn't deserve a response...That Anon at 4:11pm doesn't deserve a response from me. <br /><br />But Dith, no offense taken :) I'm no natural nazi, sometimes I even wear braids and weaves for several reasons like length, versatility, and boredom. It's all about switching it up once in a while.<br /><br />So now that we've cleared that up, can we all just get along. <br /><br /><br />...I had to upset the balance, Mgbeks 101 comments for you!Anya Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10847500731838213016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-29446119284554022812009-10-18T16:28:46.226-04:002009-10-18T16:28:46.226-04:00Damn 99 comments...lemme round it up and make it 1...Damn 99 comments...lemme round it up and make it 100...LMAOjuiceegalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17269688990619983319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-56697788062998603032009-10-18T16:27:47.104-04:002009-10-18T16:27:47.104-04:00Dith u just earned urself a new fan....Moi...loooo...Dith u just earned urself a new fan....Moi...loooooooooljuiceegalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17269688990619983319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-6413075675425738082009-10-18T16:19:07.811-04:002009-10-18T16:19:07.811-04:00Being that you cannot unsubscribe from receiving c...Being that you cannot unsubscribe from receiving comments from this post, I still receive them in my inbox and ofcourse get tempted to read them.<br /><br />Yesterday was yesterday and today is present.<br /><br />I went a lil outta character yesterday cos quite frankly, I had to. <br />Sugabelly who is so much of an activist against discrimination against blacks actually called me A MONKEY?<br />If only she knew better....<br /><br />Then with the other intruder, really,...... I was only just having fun with her. lol<br /><br />On the real tho, Anya P, I meant no disrespect whatsoever to those who carry their hair naturally. As a matter of fact, I have always admired those who look fabulous while doing so....hence my reason for going natural for 2 years but typical me, i got bored and relaxed d darn thing.<br /><br />I still trot around with my real hair majority of the time and tried using indian hair for the first time in my life this year and I am already bored of it.<br /><br />A lil experimenting never hurt nobody. <br />I maintain my stance when I say it is just hair.<br /><br />I was coming from a marketing standpoint when I said earlier that our hair was not as great as the rest.<br /><br />Do i like that it is that way?? No.<br /><br />But it is reality and we have to accept it and it looks like majority black folks have,..... seeing that we patronoize the weave industry probably more than any other ethnicity out there does.<br /><br />But if u look on the bright side,<br /><br />Full lips??....we got that down packed, so we don't need lip injections.<br /><br />Full breast and buttocks nko??....helloo, breast and butt implants are selling like hot cakes but majority of us were also blessed with that already.<br /><br />And like I mentioned earlier, our skin, and the fact that we can do whatever it is we want with black hair.<br /><br />I'll leave this place and not come back(hopefully) with one last sentence that pretty much sums up my view on wearing your hair natural.<br /><br /><br /><b>BECAUSE I HAVE HOT BODY, DOES NOT MEAN I HAVE TO WALK AROUND NAKED ALL THE TIME.</b><br /><br />Apply that analogy to wearing your hair natural all d time. Hopefully u get what I mean.<br /><br />I meant no disrespect whatsoever to all the fabulous sensible natural hair wearers who realize that what an individual chooses to do with HER HAIR is clearly a right that she possesses whether we like it or not.<br /><br />And that folks is why I came back here to clarify myself.<br /><br />Kisses and Happy sunday<br />xoxo<br />lol*Dith*noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-66775813381776731522009-10-18T16:11:15.562-04:002009-10-18T16:11:15.562-04:00@Anya P, i sincerely wished you had kept quiet and...@Anya P, i sincerely wished you had kept quiet and not tainted Osi's comments with your very badly researched epistle.<br /><br />what exactly are you trying to prove here?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-39962101648938763452009-10-18T14:53:33.143-04:002009-10-18T14:53:33.143-04:00All these epistles on top hair? SMH.All these epistles on top hair? SMH.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-79102818519070759592009-10-18T13:55:31.387-04:002009-10-18T13:55:31.387-04:00Osi, you are incredible. In very civil terms, you ...Osi, you are incredible. In very civil terms, you have managed to articulate a lot of the things I was about to talk about. <br /><br />Dith (& everyone else who thinks natural hair is bad/useless/worthless/relegated-to-halloween-costumes) is guilty of believing that what God gave her/them to grow out of their scalps is bad, useless, and unnecessary since it doesn't match up with the rest of the global population. And these beliefs are simply fallacious! The physical characteristics of every race have been proven to suit that racial group's physiological needs and even geographical terrain. For example, the African hair shaft has a distinct oval - almost flat shape. The outer cuticle scales protecting each hair are thinner in the areas where the oval shaped hair shaft is thinnest. This means natural sub-Saharan African hair is prone to breakage because its coily texture is harder to comb. This hair type also wants to tangle around itself to protect the scalp from the harsh elements of the terrain found in sub-Saharan Africa. So your natural African hair is the way it is because that is a programmed defense mechanism against the sun's harmful rays that are harsher around and below the equator. Similarly, if you look at the physiology of the races in East Asia (e.g. Chinese, Korean, Japanese, e.t.c), their 'asian eys' have an epicanthic fold in their upper eyelid which is an evolutionary defense mechanism to protect the eyes from the extra UV radiation that is characteristic of the high terrain, windy and cold continental climate of Mongol (the so-called evolutionary origin of East Asian) races.<br />Even some African ethnic groups also have epicanthic folds; e.g. the Khoisans of the Kalahari and certain groups from southern Sudan such as the Dinka and the Nuer. Again all of these features are useful to these races in their respective geographical terrains. <br /><br />Ultimately, what you decide to do with your hair is your choice. Some East Asians have gone as far as removing the 'fatty fold' to have more almond eyes; just as black women relax their hair to get straighter textures. <br /><br />In the end, you will do what you want to your hair. But don't try to perpetuate self-hate against the features you've been given by nature for these characteristics serve different purposes and nothing is quite useless.<br /><br />..er, except maybe the human appendix. Scientists are still trying to figure that one out.Anya Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10847500731838213016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-65474163705262203272009-10-18T13:00:59.480-04:002009-10-18T13:00:59.480-04:00@anon
lol. me I don sleep wake up finish.
before y...@anon<br />lol. me I don sleep wake up finish.<br />before you type you should see who started acting like a rave lunatic before I went ape shit on her. Who started hurling insults first? the first statement I made was to tell her to personalize her statement and not generalize her insecurities on the whole black race and then she started calling names. was what I said insulting? on a normal day I'll ignore it but she picked the wrong day to tick me off..<br /><br />but osi, I am glad you came here to be a voice of reason. It gives me hope. soon the likes of dith and silvia will die off and a new generation of people who love themselves will emerge, let just hope they dont breed children like them. lol.Adahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099059557885510619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-66175434187260371612009-10-18T12:40:59.872-04:002009-10-18T12:40:59.872-04:00i think Ada and Sugabelly should learn from Osi an...i think Ada and Sugabelly should learn from Osi and observe the way he/she puts their point across. Here is someone with a different view from the majority, but yet, he has not insulted anyone who does not agree with him/her.<br />Thanks Osi for being the 'only civilised' one amongst us. <br /><br />@ Ada, i think it is time you go to sleep now as you can see that in order to create awareness and educate peope, you don't have to do so by acting like a raving lunaticAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-59682630610720336932009-10-18T12:35:41.841-04:002009-10-18T12:35:41.841-04:00sylvia what the fuck are you yarning. you have my ...sylvia what the fuck are you yarning. you have my time ehn.. stay here oh, wait I am coming for you. you even sound dumber than your friend..<br />trust even if my pubic hair is crab infested or what have you, your friend will still prefer my pubic hair to what grows on her head. I mean my pubic hair is quite straight. its not like those kinky curly afros that cost 50cents. Its like that good idiaan remy hair, you that good shit, trust me she will love it. lmao.<br /><br />once again<br /><br />if you guys cannot come and counter my arguments with solid and sailent points once again you can GTFOH.Adahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099059557885510619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-31539314877309003902009-10-18T12:25:32.942-04:002009-10-18T12:25:32.942-04:00I just watched Chimamanda Adichie’s on TED last we...I just watched Chimamanda Adichie’s on TED last week. One could tell that at a time she thought novels of value where only those that were written in the Western context. In fact, some of the novels coming from the West spoke well of Africans as sub-human entities. She may have thought, “Writing good novels isn’t one of the things with which God has blessed black people.” Nonsense! We have thoroughly enjoyed Chinua Achebe as well as Charles Dickens, if not better. <br /><br />That the dominant culture at a time believed “black race” was synonymous with “lower primate” didn’t make Martin Luther King believe good skin color wasn’t something God refused to bless us with. It was simply a mental and verbal projection of the time, the zeitgeist of that era. Thankfully black people didn’t stand it. Today the prevailing intellectual view concerning hair is that characteristically black hair is bad, and I am sad to see lots of blacks succumbing to it. <br /><br />This issue is just not one of “hair”; it’s a matter of self-worth. One of the most debilitating factors for African American blacks as regards academic excellence is that it’s a white thing, and that they are not intellectually capable of academically succeeding as their white counterparts. And I am not making a value statement here. The evidence for this lies in the well documented “stereotype threat”. Briefly, when African Americans list their race on tests, for some reason they do worse than when they didn’t list their race. The same is true for women when they take math tests. It’s time to start undoing all these useless stereotypes that merely reflect perspectives of the dominant culture.Osinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-13231594552922791692009-10-18T12:24:55.287-04:002009-10-18T12:24:55.287-04:00Once in a while, I check up on arguments that deba...Once in a while, I check up on arguments that debase African/ American black folks. The other day, I read a piece that documented that the IQ of blacks lags that of whites and virtually almost every other race on earth—the gap is even bigger when compared with whites East Asians. Obviously the natural conclusion from this, if I may keep up with Dith, is that “Intelligence isn’t one of the things with which God has blessed black people.” It’s clear that the aforementioned statement is a GENETIC one. This is often used to explain why blacks didn’t invent the radar, ballistic missiles, form functional and organized societies, score less than whites on standardized tests, etc. However, James Flynn found out that the mean IQ of African American blacks today is higher than the mean IQ of whites in the 1940s and 1950s. This finding directly weakened the argument that IQ is largely a genetically racial issue. We live and we learn.<br /><br />Now we have people defining “good” hair and “bad” hair. First of all, what are the terms and conditions for having “good” hair and what constitutes “good” hair? Can someone list these so we can evaluate them one by one? As far as I know, there are no objective standards for good hair. In fact, it’s still far more reasonable and sensible to say that “intelligence isn’t one of the things with which God has blessed black people” as you can find plenty data to support that statement, no matter how flawed the interpretation. However, to say “good hair isn’t one of the things with which God has blessed black people” is simply a value statement without any supporting bases. The “hair” value statement is simply a reflection of what the dominant culture considers beautiful and acceptable, and the acquiescence of blacks towards the sentiments of the dominant culture concerning hair. If a sub-Saharan country ever attained the domineering status of the UK (in the past) or USA, such sentiments would carry much less weight. <br /><br />contdOsinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-51519084034777987222009-10-18T12:06:18.251-04:002009-10-18T12:06:18.251-04:00@ANONYMOUS THE ADA GIRL ASKED FOR IT.
@ ADA U CAL...@ANONYMOUS THE ADA GIRL ASKED FOR IT. <br />@ ADA U CALL ME A GREMLIN, WHAT AMAZES ME IS THAT PPLE LIKE U ARE THE ACTUAL GREMLIN. GIRLLLL A LITTLE BIRDIE TOLD MR U LOOK LIKE OBANSANJO. IF THAT'S TRUE U BERRA GO AND BUY ALL THE WEAVES U CAN LAY UR HANDS ON AND THANK GOD HALLOWEEN IS AROUND THE CORNER, TELL THEM TO INCLUDE A MASK FOR U. ANU MPAMA. DITH DEAR WHY DID U ASK ADA TO POST HER PIC ON THIS PAGE? PLS SHE IS DOING US A FAVOR WE DONT WANT THIS BLOG CRASHED WITH VIRUS AND I'VE SEEN ENOUGH SCARY MOVIES. ADA THANK U OOO. U DO WELL. STUPID GIRL! HOW DARE U TELL ME FRIEND THAT U WANT TO SHIP UR PUBIC HAIR TO HER.*CRING* ADA HOW CAN U BE THIS WICKED EHH!! DID I NOT CATCH U SCRATCHING UR PUBIC AREA REPEATEDLY? BIKO DON'T NOBODY WANT UR DIRTY CRAB INFECTED HAIR. BIKO THERE IS ENOUGH DISEASE IN THIS COUNTRY ALREADY SAVE THEM FOR UR CHILDREN. U CAN START OFF BY USING IT ON THEM. LIKE U TOLD U, I AM NOT MY FRIEND I HAVE UR TIME ADA. INFACT AS I AM TYPING THIS, I AM ACTUALLY SQUATTING, BECAUSE THAT'S YOUR LEVEL. EPKE NTA NEE NWERO NNE NA NNA GBABUO GI THERE!!! <br /><br />DITH, FLAUNT UR 24" INDIAN HAIR WELLA AS A MATTER OF FACT, IF THERE IS A WAY U CAN SWING UR HAIR FROM LEFT TO RIGHT AND IT CAN SLAP ADA AND SUGABELLY IN THE EYE THROUGH THE COMPUTER, THEN GO GIRL.sylvianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-63325009881136873762009-10-18T11:49:37.793-04:002009-10-18T11:49:37.793-04:00ditsy dith. clearly you are a lost cause. you stil...ditsy dith. clearly you are a lost cause. you still dey there they throw insults up and down and still not making substantial sense. All those insults wey I give you dey pain you still shey? and the bitch is still coming back. you do not have the will power to ignore me like you said? go and sit down jare. maybe you need to drop the baileys dith, because when the shekpe clears you still have to deal with what you dont like in the mirror. omo they sip on baileys<br /><br />@anon<br />um first of all I deleted my other comments because I double posted the same thing. I dont need to research anything when I have a guniea pig like dith to use as an experiment to show the world how one can self destruct.<br /><br /> and your comments have no bearing neither does your brain or train of thought. obviously if you read diths comments previously and follow conversation you will see why I made those comparisons. <br /><br />the point of an analogy, is not to show that things are exactly alike but to show that a similar principle underly the idea of both things dumb fuck. did you go to school so? <br />I mean even dith said this<br /> "I would love for all the bad things in this world to disappear. Yes!! including the demeaning of black hair or the originality of the relaxer and slavery and what have you but that would be fighting a lost battle...wouldn't it??"<br /><br />if you guys cannot come and counter my arguments with solid and sailent points once again you can GTFOH.<br /><br />and you want me to champion a better cause? you guys needs to ignore me then if my cause is not worthy enough. a cause that is telling people to love themselves, to build self esteem, to look at what they see in the mirror and be satisfied. for little girls to grow up not telling their mother that they want to get plastic surgery because her nose is not pointy enough or that she wants hair like susies.<br />So women will realize that they they dont need to dole out money to change themselves and in the process hurt themselves.pls this is more than hair.<br /><br />and even it is still not worthy of a cause, why spend time commenting on here telling me to stop. why don't you just ignoreAdahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099059557885510619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-88259062479988987552009-10-18T05:44:11.384-04:002009-10-18T05:44:11.384-04:00@ ada, as much as i really wish that dith would no...@ ada, as much as i really wish that dith would not stoop to your level, i have to agree with the insults she has rained upon you.<br /><br />CHAI!!! biko nu ada nma, eh! you even deleted your previous posts in order to do further research snd comb the internet for quotes? even the historian and research 'mogul' that is sugabelly won't go that far. Kai, you really want to be noticed sha... I do hope you get the attention you desire and likewise the satisfaction you desire from it, Miss i wanna be NOTICED BY FORCE!!!<br /><br />Those comparisons you used in your comment has no bearing whatsoever to this topic. buying fake hair or 'wasting' your money doing so has nothing to do with the discrimination suffered by black people and the fight for equality. If hair was the bone of contention btw the black and white issue, the world would most likely have been a better place.<br />you must be majorly demented to even bring up such serious issues and compare them to a superfluous universal problem of vanity. I consider it an INSULT on our forbears who fought tooth and nail for justice and equality. <br /><br />you better go champion a worthy cause that will make a profound change in the lives of the vulnerable and less priviledged. Begin with creating awareness of the plight of your fellow women in the niger delta and the hinterlands of nigeria who have been subjugated, denigtrated and exploited by society and, who by the way, in their majority wear their natural hair and don't need to be schooled on that. They just need people to help fight their causes,which will be a noble FIGHT for equality and justice - NOT FREAKING NATURAL/FAKE HAIR!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-79762551418009052912009-10-18T05:15:32.128-04:002009-10-18T05:15:32.128-04:00And i am through with this shit cos quite frankly ...And i am through with this shit cos quite frankly I have gotten bored plus I have a STATS quiz to attend to. <br /><br />It was fun while it lasted Sugabelly.<br /><br />And as for that abandoned cockroach that came out of the woodwoork to make it her business. I've got some words for ya.<br /><br />CHILE, SHUT THE FUCK UP AND SIT THE FUCK DOWN AND RESPECT YOUR MASTER BEFORE YOU GET BITCHED SLAPPED THROUGH THIS FUCKING COMPURRA!! LMAO<br /><br />On another note, I placed an order oF 24 inches of Indian Hair, run along and go get it for me quick before I fire you. <br />Oh!!!! and Dont forget to pick up <b> 50 CENTS WORTH OF AFRO</b> so u and my dog could wear it for halloween.<br /><br />HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA<br /><br />*Note to self*<br />Being childish can be fun sometimes. LmaoInconhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05667615759598957322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-29294396207687178672009-10-18T04:56:05.622-04:002009-10-18T04:56:05.622-04:00*sips on her cup of baileys while trying to make s...<b><i>*sips on her cup of baileys while trying to make sense out of this idiot's ramblings*</i></b><br /><br />ADA, ADA, ADA<br /><br />A-pparently<br /><br />D-umb<br /><br />A-s a pile of rocks.<br /><br />Heiffer I said I WOULDN'T ADDRESS U BUT U SEEM TO BE DYING FOR MY ATTENTION SO I SHALL GIVE U THAT SATISFACTION FOR A SHORT WHILE...Before U DIE from desperately wanting to belong.<br /><br /><br />Quite frankly, U bore me senseless.<br />Atleast Sugabelly sounds intelligent SOMETIMES BUT YOU,...... You seem to me, to be one of those "I must be BIGS type girls."<br /><br />U know, the one the BIG GIRLS allow roll with them only if she agrees to sit in the boot while they roll?? And ofcourse be at their beck and call whenever they need it....even if it means playing Jackie Chan for them<br /><br />LMAO. U must to be bigs oo eh!!<br />But not with moi darling.<br /><br />I got a BIG EGO<br />HA HA HA <br />But I know when to humble myself <br /><br />BUT NEVERRRRRRRRR WITH BITCHES LIKE YOU WHO LOOK UP TO ME.<br /><br />Mofos like u inspire me.<br /><br />U want to pick on Dith yet a gazillion others stated opinions that mirrored mine.<br /><br />LMAO! BIKO NU LEKWA NU MGBEKE UKWU OSE A??<br /><br />Please Help me and see this pepper seller!!<br /><br />HAHAHA Chai I DON DIE!!<br /><br />My dear until u put up a picture of urself, refer back to my initial comment. <br />You know that one that makes ur temperature rise??<br /><br />Or do u need me to repeat it again??<br /><br />As for my darling friend, I'll let her speak for herself, cos I am sure she can handle you. Do I fucking look like I need ANY BODY to come to my defense?? <br /><br />Ha ha ha <br />naah bitch try again!!! If u were that Important to me, I would have handled u. Ur own na small matter.<br />Awon "I am a natural idiot!!"<br /><br />See I cant even think straight. That's how much u fucking bore me.<br /><br />And na ur future children go crase reach market.<br /><br />U had better vamoose with the wind before I release my pitbulls on you.<br /><br /><b><i>*exits while still sipping on her baileys*</i></b>Inconhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05667615759598957322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-72910916374859011322009-10-18T04:39:29.273-04:002009-10-18T04:39:29.273-04:00ohh I am scared, dith has recruited her other inte...ohh I am scared, dith has recruited her other internet gremlin gangsta aka silvia to come and shut me up..men GTFOH.<br /><br />Dith I thought you said you were done but you keep coming back to reply, if there are other pressing issues other than hair as you stated, why the fuck are you here talking about it, why are your panties all rolled up in a bunch, sotay you go recruit people to come finish me.<br /><br />you say<br />"I would love for all the bad things in this world to disappear. Yes!! including the demeaning of black hair or the originality of the relaxer and slavery and what have you but that would be fighting a lost battle...wouldn't it??"<br /><br />oh at least you have admiitted that it is a bad thing and that black hair is demeaned. you have also admitted that we have lost a battle. The battle is not over. unfortunately this battle is not the one against segragation or the KKK but its in your fucking mind.<br />just because it is popular opinion or what is widely accepted you run with. you are a wimp so you go with the flow. It is popular but that does not make it right.<br />Through out time havent there been many ideas and views, that were seen as normal but because a few people decided to challenge the norm. the abnormal became normal.<br /><br />wasn't it normal for black people to be seen as less than human. wasnt it normal for interacial marriage to be seen as a crime? wasnt it abnormal to see a white and black man sitting in the same resturant eating? huh? If the people who fought against these things had the same defeatist mentality you have, you will not be where you are today.<br /><br />So because the market says that your hair has no value you run with it? so because designers will rather have a white ( by white I mean anything that is not black) model rather than a black model on their runway, or because they will rather have skinny models as opposed to thick ones you run with it and then conclude that since those images are popular and not like what you see in the mirror, then certainly your image in the mirror is inferior. you let external influences that are constantly changing to determine what your worth is?<br />go on with your bad self dith and friends!!! Please when you have children, teach them to love themselves, their hair, eyes,nose and everything about them, dont pass down this mental fuckery from generation to generation. nip it in the bud. Do not perpuate self hate. pls!!<br /><br />and please this is no crusade to stop people from wearing weaves. so all of you coming hear saying that you wont stop wearing weaves can suck it. I could careless.. But when people start projecting their insecurities on the rest of human beings that look like them. I will fight against that shit!! and no this is not peculiar to only the black race. but today I am not concerned about other races.<br /><br />someone had written this recently which resonantes with me deeply <br />"I want to be in a relationship with people who have tried and tried again to be their own truths and maybe experienced some shame for it, but got back up and found a way to make their own way. Who still struggle with that truth everyday, but have found peace in the process. Who feel good about being them. Even if their version of them, isn’t what everyone else would like them to be"Adahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099059557885510619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-26900701306107950752009-10-18T04:34:03.355-04:002009-10-18T04:34:03.355-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Adahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099059557885510619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-64737917128059347912009-10-18T04:23:14.636-04:002009-10-18T04:23:14.636-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Adahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099059557885510619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-77045714616520742542009-10-18T03:54:44.454-04:002009-10-18T03:54:44.454-04:00if i were sugabelly, i will retreat with the littl...if i were sugabelly, i will retreat with the little 'dignity' she has left with her tail between her legs of course...<br /><br />the fact is that you really have to feel sorry for sugabelly, i mean, the girl is only twenty years old and she looks like she could be my mother and, i am almost 10 years older than her.<br /><br />sugabelly is intimidated by light skinned, mixed race and white women. Her default mechanism is to hate on those group of women before she even gets to know them. So even a light skinned or mixed race woman who carries her afro, will still be hated on by sugabelly as a result of their skin tone.<br />As for white women, sugabelly hates them for just being. The girl is simply A RACIST. hiding behind this fake screen of Black and Proud.<br /><br />I have learned in life that when you hate something or someone so much without any concrete reason (e.g s'one hurting you or betraying you etc) it is usually because you want to be like that person or you want what they have.<br /><br />Sugabelly hates Beyonce plainly because Beyonce is all that she probably wants to be but can't be, and her way of dealing with it is by hating her without even trying to get to know her. <br /><br />Sugabelly has never highlighted the positive things which, a lot of black women (Beyonce included) around the world have achieved. With all the so called 'intelligence' she claims to hve, she has not channelled this into a single positive thing to promote the black woman. instead she hates on them for no other reason but because they are light skinned, mixed race or weave wearers or relaxer users.<br /><br />All these point to a very totured soul. No one i know that wants to create awareness starts by condemning and alienating those whom they want to educate. Hers is a clear case of the BIGGEST self loathing, inferiority complex i have ever come across in my entire life.<br /><br />Sugabelly, this is no way to emancipate the masses from weave wearing and relaxers... watch how the other NATURALS (like mgbeke, lol)INSPIRE with style, grace and subtle pride - or else you will end up in the dump. <br /><br />I just have to add here that i am a natural myself, but i will never HATE on fake hair users even though i don't understand why they spend so much on fake hair, but I HAVE to ADMIT that a lot of them look pretty as a result. <br /><br />As an aside, white women are as guilty as black women when it comes to weave wearing.<br /> I think the issue is good old plain vanity. A lot of people will do every and anything to look their best. I am afraid to say this but, the world does not think they look their best in their natural state - this applies to all races and not just black women.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com