tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post6461269641119294105..comments2024-01-12T03:59:55.781-05:00Comments on Razz is the new cool.: Yes, you can be single and satisfied.Original Mgbekehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comBlogger58125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-55758896995674397962012-10-25T22:56:45.361-04:002012-10-25T22:56:45.361-04:00hmmmmmmm I see your point but I am still not convi...hmmmmmmm I see your point but I am still not convinced. Human beings are naturallly made to want companionship. That is the truth. Now its entirely possible to be happy and single. I am single now...and I am as happy as I am ever going to get (I am naturally UNhappy, hehehehe). But my point is that something is missing. I need loads and loads of shagging and since my ass is now a christian, I must have a man to complete this aspect of my life. Bottom line is that, Life is easier with a partner...errr a good, and loving partner. But that doesnt mean that its impossible to be happy and single...its just not expedient. Let me go before I people bite my head off.Santiagohttp://jeffreyxkabuyayai.blox.pl/2012/09/Tips-And-Advice-For-Mobile-Marketing-Beginners.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-82257024963051060042009-08-27T09:05:54.587-04:002009-08-27T09:05:54.587-04:00Michelle McKinney Hammond made the difference in m...Michelle McKinney Hammond made the difference in my life.After reading her books, that was when I felt I was ready to enter into a relationship.Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13202972020876371306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-41824287277116037282009-08-24T11:32:29.122-04:002009-08-24T11:32:29.122-04:00nicely writtennicely writtendoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-57988119864717731302009-08-23T21:50:16.167-04:002009-08-23T21:50:16.167-04:00You said it all my sister, if only many females co...You said it all my sister, if only many females could think like you. You are definitely on the right track in life. You will meet the perfect one for you...stay blessed.Yankeenaijababehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15578298912840032898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-51120559943800568312009-08-23T20:36:08.445-04:002009-08-23T20:36:08.445-04:00Myne: Yes I will definitely try to tune in for the...Myne: Yes I will definitely try to tune in for the 30, single and accomplished show.<br /><br />Shona: Welcome back Ms. lady. I am glad you enjoyed this, self love is truly important my sister. I hope you are around to stay?<br /><br />Nicey m: I 100% feel you my sister. Most of these men feel that they have options that is why they act stupid. It is pretty ridiculous!<br /><br />BSNC: My dia, I dey try preach am.<br /><br />SolomonSydelle: Amen again. LOL<br /><br />ALoted: Ya know! That's what I'm trying to say. Here's to all of us indeed. :)<br /><br />Olu: See ya head, committment free sex will get old after a while (I think) so hurry up and wife one of these wimmens up so that I can come and eat rice at ya wedding. :-D<br />But I hear you bros! Thanks. <br /><br />Burrax: We are hearing o! LOL<br /><br />Anon: I hear you but this isn't about taking jabs at people who bemoan their single status, this is more about people who don't think that they can find happiness if a man isn't in the mix or people who need a man to 'complete them'...I'm just saying, being single aint as terrible as society tries to make it out and like you said, in the end it's all about how we choose to see things.<br />Ah wellz...Original Mgbekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-28990983155864834502009-08-22T18:08:14.379-04:002009-08-22T18:08:14.379-04:00pls excuse my typos. I meant pass not apss, and ch...pls excuse my typos. I meant pass not apss, and choose not shoose. my keyboard is dyslexic lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-8795944795298926052009-08-22T18:06:27.118-04:002009-08-22T18:06:27.118-04:00I think that everyone is a little different. If yo...I think that everyone is a little different. If you stay re-taking the same course in college, it will make you want to drop out or get a tutor to apss the class the next time around. If you stay being single, it may make you unhappy or teach you the lesson of being content and satisfied.<br /><br />Yes we should be happy and comfortable in our skin, but sometimes doing the single ladies beyonce dance is a defense mechanism. I think we have this perception of ladies who openly bemoan their single state as being desperate for a man when it may not always be the case. And so in order not to be put in that box we throw our hands up to the single ladies dance.<br /><br />At the end of the day, it's how you shoose to see things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-90194934201411206362009-08-22T15:58:41.715-04:002009-08-22T15:58:41.715-04:00HEAR HEAR!HEAR HEAR!Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-54899526810258975622009-08-22T15:00:07.274-04:002009-08-22T15:00:07.274-04:00Human beings are compulsively self-serving (or so ...Human beings are compulsively self-serving (or so I think), so I don't think anyone can make you happy, if you can't be happy on your own.<br /><br />I'm definitely happier when I'm single. It's not like I've been in a proper LOVE relationship ( smart enough to figure I could have sex without going through the rigors of a relationship. *wink wink*). Dated someone for a few weeks recently and it was kinda CHOKING. Being with me works for ME!<br /><br />I'm not against people who think THEY can only be happy when they are married or in a relationship. But I can't stand the prejudices again single people (especially ladies), though I'm kinda guilty.<br /><br />You're on point - as ALWAYS.oluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00915934762869517610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-20353108953994634762009-08-22T13:16:29.708-04:002009-08-22T13:16:29.708-04:00lovely post...
if u are not happy or satisfied as...lovely post...<br /><br />if u are not happy or satisfied as a single person..marriage will not change that in anyway.<br /><br />here's to all the single and satisfied people in da house!!!!alotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-66480232838349650502009-08-22T09:37:35.811-04:002009-08-22T09:37:35.811-04:00Can't even add anything so, I'll just join...Can't even add anything so, I'll just join the congregation and say "Amen".SOLOMONSYDELLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564768670896215900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-28036709494347850832009-08-21T21:35:06.203-04:002009-08-21T21:35:06.203-04:00preach my dear. true storypreach my dear. true storyBSNChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13543021213550898347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-29831825657162620122009-08-21T18:13:05.542-04:002009-08-21T18:13:05.542-04:00I hear you about not doing that post. I read the o...I hear you about not doing that post. I read the other yesterday and folks weren't having none of it. LOL<br /><br />I forgot to add that we should all strive to be with men that understand what it means to have a good woman! So they should have experience when it comes to the things of the heart so they can appreciate a good thing when they see one. Most times these dudes acting stupid is because they don't know any better and think if I can find someone this nice? then someone nicer is out there. Vice versa as well.Nice Anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11821297787183068066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-56124866107932264202009-08-21T16:51:58.215-04:002009-08-21T16:51:58.215-04:00Loved this post girl!! Doing my first real blog ro...Loved this post girl!! Doing my first real blog round in like forever and this is the first blog i stopped on...and m glad to be back!!<br />Preach it girl...my,myself&I is good and happy!!Self-love is important!!ShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-13422263053222105532009-08-21T14:05:26.018-04:002009-08-21T14:05:26.018-04:00What kept me returning to your blog was your HP co...What kept me returning to your blog was your HP collection. but it also seems you've caught this single bug. Hope you'll be on the radio show?Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-56193183340579460582009-08-21T12:31:27.604-04:002009-08-21T12:31:27.604-04:00Enkay: mayne the thing weak me o. You are doing yo...Enkay: mayne the thing weak me o. You are doing your thing and they are looking down at you because they are wearing matching outfit with their husband. LOL, no be small thing my sister.<br /><br />Temite: LOL, no one is biting your head off. It's always interesting to get another perspective. I get your point but imagine if the man never comes, are you going to live the rest of your life feeling like something is missing?<br /><br />Gochi: LOL @ your friend. Some people really do not get it. In fact some people will read this blog post and scoff at it thinking that I am just consoling myself. I tire to explain to people o jare...think what you will. Ha!<br /><br />LusciousRon: Yes o, my sister.<br /><br />RocNaija: Ya know, someone else asked me that. I have no idea...I will google it.<br /><br />aeedeeaeee: Please help me tell 'em. LOL @ running like a banshee. If I had my way, I would stop women from walking down the aisle with the next toaster because 'time is running out'. Screw the relatives and people who choose to remind you that your time is running out, na them sabi. And who said 30 is the cut-off age? I just weak!<br /><br />Culshureeeee: Cue the Bey song. (I hate that song BTW), Please o I still need the sugar D, rent gosta be paid and I want some vacays in the Bahamas. Who says I have to date him, he can just be financing my habits for FREE. LMAO!<br />Hahaha @ mingle mingle, they had some kind of event like that recently. LOL @ discontent women, true that it is easier said than done but I hope that it happens for all of us o...as in being content, happy and fulfilled as a solo being. You don scarce oooo, this babe!Original Mgbekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-62533541582177401892009-08-21T12:16:53.253-04:002009-08-21T12:16:53.253-04:00UnWritten: Good luck with that, true talk it is no...UnWritten: Good luck with that, true talk it is not easy but yes you can! Find that self contentment and I hope that he comes when the time is right for you. :-)<br /><br />48: Please do a post, I look forward to reading. May we all be assets and not liabilities...amin!<br /><br />Kmplx: AMin!<br /><br />Trybes: Yes o cos some relationships be causing people sleepless nights and ish, abeg o! I trust that you are a responsible man, keep on doing what you do and when you pluck that apple send us the invite. :-D<br /><br />Repressed: Yeah, first time hearing her. Loved it. I dey observe some books on Amazon...I definitely wanna add her to the library.<br /><br />Ebony: *Hands up*...LOL. Single and proud baby, when anyone tries to chat smack to you put 'em in their place o jare.<br /><br />Rene: Thank you ma'am. Let 'em know the difference. :-)<br /><br />Suru: There will always be pressure from society, we just gotta learn how to tune them all out. It will happen if it is meant to happen.<br /><br />SassyTrends: Happiness is truly a state of mind, man or woman should not determine anyone's happiness. Thanks missy!<br /><br />Muyiwa: Thank you sirrrr. <br /><br />OmoCalabar: Hmmm, ah well...Original Mgbekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-14926241134450369752009-08-21T12:06:03.594-04:002009-08-21T12:06:03.594-04:00Tara: And you know it!
Standtall: Yes we all can,...Tara: And you know it!<br /><br />Standtall: Yes we all can, single and happy, married and happy as long as we aren't basing our happiness on the next person.<br /><br />Tigeress: Yes o, all those women who turn their noses up. Na them sabi, wetin consain me with their yeyerisms. For real, Michelle should be an inspiration to us all.<br /><br />Dee: I am absolutely loving your responses. True talk, we as individuals need to work on the 'little' things. Is your money looking right? Are you able to take care of your home as a single woman? What is your attitude like? Marriage/Companionship is work and you wanna be kinda set before you embark on anything. I need to read that Diva principle. Thanks lady!<br /><br />Mocha: LMAO, no choke ooo before my 'NIG' comes and jacks me. Gotta love it, epiphanies and all. :-D<br />Tis truly the time to work on one's self and just enjoy the simplicity of life. If we get married, we finna have to give most of the things that we currently take for granted up for a lifetime.<br /><br />LadyX: You dey mind those peeps? When they come and tell me ish I say...'ah, when you have refused to introduce me to your fine brothers and cousins, how won't I be single?'..LOL!<br /><br />Chayoma: Yes to the Loving me, myself and I movement. It's not rocket science but seems to be pretty hard for some folk.<br /><br />Anon: LMAO @ male miscreants. Nna mennn, DMV guys are on another level. And I feel you! I remember when my dad stayed with me for a bit and I'd come home from a long day of work and start prepping his dinner...I was like ah, I guess this will be what married life will be like? I'm not ready. LOL<br /><br />MizChif: So I heard ooo, I wish I had called it with my opinionated self. Ha Ha Ha.<br /><br />Nicey m: I like this balancing wey you come balance o. Preach it!<br />'So many people are so into the MRS thing that they overlook...' word up! No be small overlooking, our generation is gonna have a bunch of problematic marriages if we keep this up.<br />Oh and as per the yankee Nigerians...I have retired from my trouble making ways. LMAO.<br /><br />FaboLa: My sister, either way we shall thank God, continue to be happy and live life and love life! :-)Original Mgbekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-57323568379341828062009-08-21T11:22:16.399-04:002009-08-21T11:22:16.399-04:00please cue Bey in the back ground.....now put your...please cue Bey in the back ground.....now put your hands up...o o o oo o o o o..lol<br /><br />single and satisfied you say?? so i shouldnt send the sugar daddy guy your way ba? that wld spoil your rep shey? still sending him anyway..<br /> at least you didnt throw in the "single and ready to mingle" line with this. you know what i like very much about this post,is the contentment i detect...it comes off rather real, esp since alot of gals who claim that they are hapily single are LIARS, take them to a mingle mingle party or a nija wedding and see how content they are then...<br /><br />like i always say to people, you can't wait for someone to complete you, if you are not complete yourself....as much as everyone claims they know this...somtimes it ain't so easy in practice...looks like u got it tho. stay awesome!Chomyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01751851375422199391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-64090772143451417102009-08-21T08:57:58.532-04:002009-08-21T08:57:58.532-04:00Ready or not...Single or married...if thou are not...Ready or not...Single or married...if thou are not satisfied with thineself...aint no way thou'd be satisfied with thineself + 1...It irks me when i hear women say things like "i can't be without a man." Or "You must get married soon...clock's ticking, you know.." and "..you know for women productivity is finite..." That one takes the bizkit! Why hurry into this biznes of "being with someone" despite the obvious madness of the marra then be the person running for the nearest exit, screaming like a Banshee, cursing the day you met the blighter...I'm happier single...i don't want to be but it sure beats being a relationship that's both stupid and unhealthy.Aee Bonruehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287574113066418928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-55467812113164687492009-08-21T08:52:03.021-04:002009-08-21T08:52:03.021-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Aee Bonruehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287574113066418928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-39576044914539555282009-08-21T07:56:08.958-04:002009-08-21T07:56:08.958-04:00So out of curiosity is 'Michelle McKinney Hamm...So out of curiosity is 'Michelle McKinney Hammond' in any way related to 'Fred Hammond'??Rochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12910241839180201273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-80466378340919622832009-08-21T07:54:05.507-04:002009-08-21T07:54:05.507-04:00True talk my sister.True talk my sister.LusciousRonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14448225682004908627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-78542107783890258002009-08-21T07:40:14.469-04:002009-08-21T07:40:14.469-04:00Ms. McKinney Hammond speaks the truth. You definit...Ms. McKinney Hammond speaks the truth. You definitely need to work on you as a whole before engaging in a duet. Yup somebody to complement and not complete.<br /><br />One of my close friends is an absolute idiot when it comes to this topic, his a typical example of the men you mentioned he says exactly the same thing ‘sharrap, you are not ashamed…your mates are married and you are here doing nonsense’. Or he will say something like be doing big girl there o, Nonsense...AARGHHH!!<br /><br />I keep trying to explain, i'm happy now, just be happy for me..LOL (i think i understand he is a lost cause though)Gochihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17883887259474408747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7029273078195619238.post-47508772739856407892009-08-21T07:06:30.738-04:002009-08-21T07:06:30.738-04:00and oh, no one can look down their nose at you, wi...and oh, no one can look down their nose at you, without your consent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com